Monday, January 28, 2008

Sisters AND Cousins Are Special



As children they went away to boarding school together. As teens they learned their craft and both became talented dressmakers. Prior to World War II they worked together here in this beautiful Devon seaside town (click on pic to enlarge) in their father's hotel/pub - two sisters who were very close. They were glamorous ~ they dated famous British Wimbledon tennis players. They lounged on the sea wall wearing cream linen dresses, elegant hats, silk stockings and soft strapped leather shoes.


For their sister's wedding, they lovingly stitched the wedding dress and the bridesmaids' gowns.
My mother, third from the left and her older sister next to her, they were so close. The bride and the sister on the far right are their twin sisters.

They each married during that terrible time of war and, being close sisters, they each had a daughter of their own within nine months of one another. The cousins ~ me on the left obviously throwing a tantrum, while Susan my cousin walks holding the sisters' hands.


Mary & Sue
Torquay Seafront Promenade - 1944

The cousins grew up just a few miles and a bus ride apart. We had no cars but the double decker bus could take us to each other in about 30 minutes. We spent Summer holidays together, looking into the future...........................

................................enjoying girlie pursuits in the house.............playing on the beach, walking the fields on the cliff tops, picking blackberries and hazelnuts from the hedgerows, sharing pennies at the amusement arcade on the pier, you can see it's still there in the first photo above.
In the teen years school kept them busy, then boyfriends appeared. They met now and then. Sometimes hanging out at the one little coffee bar that had a juke box - feeding it sixpences to hear Buddy Holly sing 'Peggy Sue' over and over again.

Johan, Mary, Bob and Sue (seated)
Torquay, England - Oct. 2007

The years have flown by and the sisters, our sweet Mums, have gone. We no longer live a quick double decker bus ride apart. Sue is still there in that lovely English coastal town with wonderful Dutch husband Johan. I am far away across the pond with Yankee Bob. Sue's unable to fly here to see me but I cross the pond when possible to visit with her. We are always in touch - because we are, and always will be, very special cousins.

Today my cousin Sue celebrates her sixty fifth birthday. Where have all those years gone?
Neither of us was blessed with a sister but I'm so thankful we are cousins.


~~~~Happy Birthday dear Sue~~~~

16 comments:

  1. Sweet post, Mary. Happy birthday to Sue!

    Pat

    ReplyDelete
  2. Happy Birthday from this side of the pond :)

    Janet

    ReplyDelete
  3. Hi Mary
    What a beautiful story! And I love all the pictures. You and Sue are just like sisters. My sister and I have the same close bond though we are far away too. She arrives from Canada for a visit on Wednesday. We are very close and I can't wait.
    Hope you have a lovely day.
    Happy birthday to Sue.
    Rhondi

    ReplyDelete
  4. What a wonderful post. You are blessed to have such a person in your life. I am lucky enough to have a sister but I also have a cousin who was like a sister to me.

    ReplyDelete
  5. Happy Birthday Sue. I too have a very special cousin. We used to cut and and play with paper dolls for hours. I couldn't enlarge your pictures, but what I can see is great. Good you get to go see her.

    ReplyDelete
  6. I wish you a wonderful birthday today Sue! I just love Mary and know you must be so blessed to have each other as close cousins. I hope your day brings you sunshine, happiness and smiles to last throughout the year!

    Happy Monday dear Mary!

    Hugs ~
    Heidi

    ReplyDelete
  7. What a lovely story! Happy Birthday to your dear cousin.

    ReplyDelete
  8. I love your post today....It reads like a Rosamond Pilcher novel. How lucky you both were and ARE to have each other. I wish Sue a wonderful & happy birthday and I thank you, Mary, for telling us this lovely story. Your mothers'lives sound like a novel just waiting to be written! Sue

    ReplyDelete
  9. What an absolutely lovely story you tell. It takes us on a mini journey. All the best from the states to your cousin.
    Lisa & Alfie

    ReplyDelete
  10. Well Happy Birthday to Sue!!
    Thanks for sharing the story and pictures. Those dresses are really great!
    Rosemary

    ReplyDelete
  11. What a sweet tribute to your sister by heart! How fortunate you were to be able to spend 'growing up years' together.
    What sweet memories, I love the old pictures!

    ReplyDelete
  12. I'm lucky enough to have a sister which is a good thing since I'm not close to any of my cousins.

    ReplyDelete
  13. Happy Birthday to Cousin Sue. It was so fun to hear about your early days. You are blessed to have such a good friend to whom you are also related!

    Julie

    ReplyDelete
  14. Happy Birthday to your cousin Sue! How fun to hear about your days past! I am so glad to be back blogging and have missed you oh so much!

    ReplyDelete
  15. Mary ~ this is a beautiful post & lovely photos of your memories with your cousin! Sending Happy Birthday Wishes to your dear cousin Sue.

    ReplyDelete
  16. Very sweet little story. Those are some precious photos and memories.
    Thanks!
    Joyce

    ReplyDelete

Thanks for taking time to leave a comment. I always enjoy hearing from my special blog friends.....and new visitors are always welcome.