Saying goodbye..................

Shedding tears of sorrow.

Yesterday I took a walk in below freezing temperatures. The sky was cloudless and brilliant blue in the midday sunshine. I went to a little park nearby. At one time several homes stood there. Families with children must have enjoyed the nearby creek. Vestiges of the occupants remain, a plant hanger rusting on a large oak, a little shed way back in the wooded area. The houses were taken by the city due to constant flooding from the creek, and the park was created. I only see a dog walker now and then, it's not a popular place as there's a much larger city park within half a mile complete with duck pond, swings, slide, tennis courts and community center. I like to stop here at this somewhat lonely spot when I want to think, be alone, take some pictures, and perhaps shed a tear.

I lost the dearest friend on Friday.........the husband of my best friend from my hometown in England. She and I met in Washington, D.C. when we emigrated, amazed to find we grew up just miles apart. For almost 47 years we have kept in touch even though she moved to the west coast 45 years ago. We were last together in July when we visited their vacation home at Lake Almanor in Northern California, and last Spring we all met up in our hometown in Devon, England for an amazing time.

This wonderful couple were like this mighty oak. Two special loving people, always together, traveling the world to places most of us never see. Brave until the very end, a kind and loving man to his family, friends and strangers. His battle with cancer for so many years made us admire him so much

I will not be posting for a little while. Life feels sad, empty, brittle. I need some time to remember a wonderful man whom I know is now at peace...........................but will be missed so much.

Pink Saturday Guest

A PINK SATURDAY post is hard today ~ my camera hasn't captured anything pink since the store windows in New York. Instead I'm sharing more of what my granddaughter Jasmin sees through the camera lens. Somehow, last week she brought life back to my dried roses, putting the pink back into the now ochre and tan shaded petals. She has 'the eye' and knows how to get all those special effects in just a blink of it! Thanks for being a great 'guest photographer' Jasmin.

So here we are starting another year of Pink Saturdays. This has grown by leaps and bounds, all thanks to dear Beverly at How Sweet the Sound who continues to do a wonderful job hosting this always fun day of the week. Be sure to stop over and see Beverly's list of participants this week....................and have a fabulous day.

Christmas Past

Wrapping and packing snowflakes and stars.

I was late, but just by a day. Twelfth Night and Epiphany passed by but I didn't take down my decorations until yesterday. No excuses other than too cold, too busy, a dental appointment, an H1N1 'flu shot in the arm.

One little star was not hidden away in the big green box. Instead it will remain, perhaps moving from place to place throughout the year, a memory, an inspiration.

Starlight, star bright,

The first star I see tonight;

I wish I may, I wish I might,

Have the wish I wish tonight.

~19th Century English Nursery Rhyme~

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A Winter's Tale

A few mornings ago, after the deep freeze arrived here in central North Carolina, I found myself wide awake at 5 AM. After switching on the coffee pot and opening the blinds, I saw the huge white moon still hanging in the darkened sky to the West. Pulling my fleece robe tight around me, and slipping into thick socks, I stepped outside on the porch with a camera and took some shots, this one being the best. A frigid but beautiful clear morning.

Black-capped Chickadee

I sat at the computer for a while and, after the sun came up, it wasn't long before several chickadees and a lone titmouse flew onto the frozen fountain in search of a morning drink. Knowing the temps. were stuck below freezing for the coming days and water would remain solid ice, I boiled a tea kettle and poured on the hot water........for at least on hour or so the birds could drink.

Despite the biting cold, our skies are cloudless and sunny. I love this weather so much. This afternoon I looked skyward at a group of crows chasing a red-tailed hawk across the expanse of brilliant Carolina blue...............but this may change, tonight we may have snow.

Delightful Dining

Besides the irresistible Shabby Chic Couture white linen napkins with the silver crowns....................

..............I also purchased the soft natural linen ones with a small French blue fleur-de-lis embroidered on the corner.

For now they are piled on the hutch along with my vintage French dish towels purchased at La Madone in Provence.............but they will be used, definitely not hidden away in a drawer. I do love cloth napkins for the evening meal but usually resort to paper for breakfast and lunch. But, if YOU come join me for lunch or afternoon tea some day, we'll use these and I promise you'll get to choose ~ a crown or a fleur-de-lis.

Talking of napkins/serviettes..............what do you use to dab your mouth or wipe your sticky fingers, paper or cloth?

Rachel's Shabby Chic Couture

As promised, more from my recent visit to Rachel Ashwell's New York shop Shabby Chic Couture which opened last Fall. On entering, one feels surrounded by a peaceful calm. Most of the furniture, sofas and chairs, are dressed in white or pale natural linen upholstery or slipcovers, illuminated by fabulous overhead chandeliers and wall sconces. While my DH relaxed in a comfy chair, Jasmin and I wandered through the shop and, after getting permission from the very nice staff, took photos of all the beautiful things we would have liked to bring back to North Carolina!

I really fell for this amazingly pretty ruffled linen table cover. Rachel finds vintage linens and dyes them in pale, washed shades ~ still a lot of shabby chic white, her original look, but now some gentle colors added making a lovely mix.

Very pretty china and of course I had to buy a few of these washed linen napkins with embroidered silver crowns ~ knew they would fit in a corner of the rapidly bulging suitcase!

Plenty of plush pillows and lamp shades displayed.

Another exquisite dyed linen cloth ~ besides being used as a table cover I could see it across a pretty bed. Perfect white mugs with crowns.

The wall of Shabby Chic Couture linens wasn't exactly shabby either! These are gorgeous sets of sheets, duvet covers, bed skirts etc., much more high end (and higher priced) than the Simply Shabby Chic line found at Target ~ although they too are fabulous and I use them on my beds. I liked how Rachel has these packaged in pretty matching fabric bags rather than plastic.

It hardly seems possible that Rachel Ashwell, a London gal, came into our lives and homes via Southern California, with her original Shabby Chic style, 20 years ago! Those of us who shared her love of practical slip covered sofas, vintage lighting fixtures and painted flea market finds, embraced her vintage style through her books and television series. We have used her products and ideas in our own homes, mixing in those items of comfort, practicality and prettiness. Personally, I love her respect for old and imperfect items with a history..........and the romantic, comfortable way of making a room easy on the eye and very welcoming.

Loose white and washable slip covers, paintings of English roses, vintage crystal chandeliers, rumpled yet beautiful beds, painted flea market finds, the comfy cottage and farmhouse feeling, and a touch of French..................I feel these are the things that Rachel Ashwell brought to us here in the USA.

And the surprise? Opening soon in London, Rachel's hometown, her first British shop located at 202 Kensington Park Road in the Notting Hill district. Good luck Rachel ~ we are so glad you are back and sharing your beautiful finds and designs for our homes.

Rachel's newest book Shabby Chic Interiors ~ My Rooms, Treasures and Trinkets is a must to add to your decorating library. I guarantee you will love it! You can visit Rachel on her blog here.

New York's Finest

Takashimaya New York..................the small, exquisite Japanese department store on Fifth Avenue has to be my favorite place to browse and wish I was well-heeled with a few thousand bucks to spare! Their merchandise is so beautiful, I wanted to purchase several items for gifts........and something for myself to remind me of my visit. Fabulous clothing from creative designers in far off lands such as Norway. Household items so beautifully crafted. Quality luggage and travel accessories. Toiletries and cosmetics from the best manufacturers around the world. Baby clothes that make one wish for a little one to spoil. A floral department full of perfumed flowers and wonderful arrangements, and in the basement, the Tea Box Cafe and shop where perfumed teas are blended from elegant boxes lining the sleek wooden shelves.

No photography permitted in the store unfortunately but you can visit their website here to see some of their online offerings.

Takashimaya's signature cream boxes and bags with black silk cords and tassels.

If you enjoy wrapping gifts you will appreciate the way the sales clerks at Takashimaya put their hearts into making your purchases so elegant.........you don't ever want to unwrap them! They take your items, disappear for several minutes, then present you with simple, but beautifully shaped, folded boxes and bags containing your purchases. Inside the boxes lovely tissue papers are pleated and folded................I think that the packaging often costs more than the item inside!

My treasured bar of Cote Bastide soap from Provence, wrapped in a simple cream triangular box with bronze pleated tissue paper.

If you take a trip to New York City be sure to visit here. Takashimaya is quite different from the hustle and bustle of the usual department store..........an elegant, peaceful oasis you will really enjoy.